eMags Kontakt

Yes, No, Maybe?


Love(in)g Mainhattan Part I

Galia Brener writes the first english column for Journal Frankfurt. Every Friday. Here we go: So girls, over 25 or more years later, do we still believe in him? Does “Prince Charming” really exist? And if he does exist, does he look like that guy that Disney was trying to sell us all of these years?
On a lazy Sunday afternoon, I dragged Heather Klein out to watch a football game. I decided to be extra daring, and wore my new ultra colorful maxi dress, which is cut in the shape of an elegant old-fashioned Baroque dress with a long train. It was a bit of a crazy outfit for an average Sunday at the Schweizerstr., but we only live once, right? Sitting in the lovely back outdoor area of Wagner, Heather glanced at me with a perplexed look on her face and asked, completely out of the blue, “Where is HE already?!” Knowing that this conversation would take a while, I needed to stock up on some emotional ammunition, and ordered 4 Mispelchen. For each of us, of course! Something had to warm our hearts on this particular Sunday, and get us into football mood.

“HE” is also known as Prince Charming. The brave knight-in-shining-armor. The one who will love you forever and ever, with all your flaws, cellulite, wrinkles and days when your stomach is horribly bloated and nothing fits well, including your favorite jeans. When we were little girls, we were told of fairytales with Prince Charming, listening attentively with wide-open eyes.

So girls, over 25 or more years later, do we still believe in him? Does “Prince Charming” really exist? And if he does exist, does he look like that guy that Disney was trying to sell us all of these years?

Our friend Jilli was supposed to go with her parents to a picnic in Oberursel. She knew that as soon as she arrives, her mother would conspire with the neighbor ladies and force poor single Jilli to meet all of their “Handsome”, “Eligible”, “Wonderful” sons –yeah right! Um… no thank you! Hell no! Since when is being single so bad that it must be attacked and taken care of immediately? Or even better, let’s all go to the doctor and get antibiotics against Singlenessia?! Jilli’s mobile rang, it was Isabella Valentine. “We are going on a party boat on the Main. Go get dressed. Now!” Isabelle said, knowing that it takes Jilli hours to get ready.

It was a very warm beautiful summer evening in Frankfurt. Jilli stood in front of her closet, asking the same damn annoying question… again. What to wear? Should I go with something casual? This way it doesn’t look like I’m trying too hard, thought Jilli. Or rather stylish and chic? Which might be too much, and appear as if I’m trying too hard to impress. Jilli was getting into her “How-do-I-appear-to-others” complex again. She ended up choosing a white 70’s style mini dress with a colorful flower collage on the front, and topped it all off with huge Jackie O sunglasses, a wide gold-colored leather bracelet cuff, and her new colorful strappy wood-wedged sandals. Looking like a girl out of a show that aired 40 years ago, Jilli left her city center flat, and met Isabella at the Eisener Steg.

The Kingka party boat was filled with happy people, waiving to their friends and swaying their bodies to the hypnotizing beats. Jilli and Isa were making their way to their friends, Natalia and Co., who were already waiting for a while on the boat. Of course the girls occupied the best place, right in front of the bar. Standing 3 meters to the right of them was a group of tall handsome men smiling about something secretive and exciting. The boat started moving, and the first Hugos were ordered.

The girls were having such a great time, that Jilli didn’t even notice one of the guys from the group approaching the bar. He was trying to order a drink, but couldn’t get close to the bar, due to the barricade the girls had created. Looking at Jilli with a mischievous smile, the 2-meter-tall, dark haired guy asked her politely if she can order him a beer. Thinking to herself, “Oh great, another handsome player that I do not need in my life right now”, she looked at him and said, “No, order your own beer”. The guy looked totally confused and asked again. Annoyed by his persistence, Jilli delegated his request to her friend. As the tall stranger was walking away with beer in hand, Jilli thought, “Hmmm…actually, he is quite handsome…” He caught her stare from the corner of his eye, and with a smile on his lips, he turned around and walked back to his friends.

To be continued…
2. November 2012, 10.00 Uhr
Galia Brener


Galia Brener am 14.11.2012, 16:18 Uhr:
By the way, my dear readers, the "Love(in)g Mainhattan" story will continue next week. This Friday I have something new for you. Each week I will try to bring up topics that are significant in our tough, yet adventurous dating world. It's like a jungle sometimes it makes me wonder how I keep from going under - thanks Grandmaster Flash for your accurate prediction in the 80s! ;-)
Galia Brener am 11.11.2012, 15:22 Uhr:
Grace you're right! I just clicked hanna lott's profile, and it's a fake. Page doesn't exist. Compliment of the highest level. Thanks for pointing that out to me :-) and thanks for the support!
grace.ordin am 10.11.2012, 20:56 Uhr:
Hanna Lott is a fake profile! I just clicked on the name and this page/profile does not exist on Twitter anymore! Galia, don't worry about these comments, it's someone who opened a fake profile just to irritate you. Time invested on creating fake profiles! How absolutely fabulous, consider this a great compliment, girl!!
hanterston am 9.11.2012, 20:50 Uhr:
Well, I think that Galia's writing is a breath of fresh air to both Journal and Frankfurt. She's not scared to write about if I may say ?crap? that we, women, are going through in this harsh dating world. Finally a woman that says it like it is. I have experienced similar situations, and it makes me feel good to know that I am not alone. Emotions are not always easy to deal with and having this column I can read and comment about situations I can identify with! By the way, I am not against the whole men world. They has their issues with dating as well? Galia, do not get discouraged by negative reactions and keep writing your lovely column!! Looking forward to continuations!
Galia Brener am 9.11.2012, 18:14 Uhr:
Dear readers, many topics that will come up in this column will be taken from real-life situations, and will address the issues that we have to deal with these days (Both men and women). Some good, some bad, some happy, and some ugly. The one thing that is for certain, is that human nature is not boring... and neither will this column be!
Hanna Lott am 9.11.2012, 15:27 Uhr:
Copy and paste, the way to glory :)
Erst Taschen, nun Journalistin, danach Malerin?
Schuster, bleib bei deinen Leisten, diese Kolumne braucht leider kein Mensch...
Brigitte Neubert am 9.11.2012, 15:22 Uhr:
Sorry Galia, I think this is the wrong place, a serious news magazine, to publish what you eat, who your girlfriend dates and if she gets wet between her legs...
Galia Brener am 8.11.2012, 19:13 Uhr:
The drama continues tomorrow, don't miss it... ;-)
Patrick Meier am 8.11.2012, 15:07 Uhr:
Mmh, dont´t know what to think about these words. Sounds like Sex and the City, means Mainhatten and not Manhatten and would be more authentic without the link to the Onlienstore.
tobo.aka am 5.11.2012, 21:49 Uhr:
Durch Sie wird Journal international!
Gelungener Auftakt, ein neuer Wind in unserer kleinen Mainmetropole ;-)
Schöne Kolumne!
Setzfehler am 5.11.2012, 17:24 Uhr:
Do we really need this column?
Galia Brener am 3.11.2012, 11:07 Uhr:
Doug, you forgot the exclamation mark after "piece"... but I'm willing to settle for "peace" ;-)
Doug am 3.11.2012, 02:24 Uhr:
What a shallow and superficial piece.
Galia Brener am 2.11.2012, 16:47 Uhr:
Sex and the City is a huge inspiration for me - and Carrie is absolutely lovely! However I try to write in my own style, homour, philosophy, point of view, life experiences, etc. :-)
Isi Peazy Lemon Squeezie am 2.11.2012, 14:29 Uhr:
inspiration bei carrie bradshaw, hm?
Mehr Nachrichten aus dem Ressort Gesellschaft
Absage Wäldchestag
Kein Rummel im Stadtwald
Der Frankfurter Wäldchestag, der in diesem Jahr vom 22. bis 25. Mai geplant war, wird aufgrund der Corona-Pandemie nicht stattfinden. Dies teilte die Stadt Frankfurt mit. Das beliebte Traditionsfest im Stadtwald war bereits im vergangenen Jahr coronabedingt abgesagt worden. – Weiterlesen >>
Text: mad / Foto: © visitfrankfurt/Holger Ullmann
Vor Koalitionsverhandlungen
Radentscheid fordert schnelles Handeln
Vor dem Beginn der Koalitionsverhandlungen in Frankfurt hat sich die Initiative „Radentscheid Frankfurt“ an die beteiligten Parteien gewendet. Sie fordert, dass die noch nicht umgesetzten Maßnahmen künftig konsequent und vor allem schnell umgesetzt werden. – Weiterlesen >>
Text: loe / Foto: Dirk Ostermeier
Einheitliche Maßnahmen
Corona-Notbremse beschlossen
Der Bundestag hat am Mittwoch die bundesweit einheitlich geltende Corona-Notbremse beschlossen. Durch die Neufassung soll der Bund ab einer Inzidenz von 100 stärker eingreifen dürfen. Am Donnerstag hat nun auch der Bundesrat zugestimmt. – Weiterlesen >>
Text: sie / Foto: AdobeStock/Stiefi
Die Bürgerinitiative „Mainkai für alle“ will den Mainkai erneut autofrei machen und appelliert an die sich formende Koalition. Mit einer Demonstration am 2. Mai wollen sie ihren Forderungen Nachdruck verleihen. Widerstand kommt abermals aus Sachsenhausen. – Weiterlesen >>
Text: sie / Foto: AdobeStock/Branko Srot
In einem am Dienstag veröffentlichten offenen Brief richtet sich Ulrich Caspar, Präsident der Industrie- und Handelskammer Frankfurt (IHK), an die Fraktionsvorsitzenden der Grünen, SPD, FDP und Volt. Darin formuliert er zahlreiche Forderungen an die künftige Regierung. – Weiterlesen >>
Text: Margaux Adam / Foto: Oliver Rehbein/Unsplash
1  2  3  4  ...  1614 
VLOG Galia Brener
Galia Brener talks about love, relationships, life, events and lifestyle - in Frankfurt! You can personally contact Galia Brener with your questions and comments via Facebook or at galia@journal-frankfurt.de